I woke late, considerably late but not due to choice of wanting to wake. My eyes crusted over from boughs of endless crying over the last two weeks, a heavy heart over the continued turn of events my ex husband set in motion by a series of carefully orchestrated incidences and maneuvers due to out right lies.
Looking over the divorce decree, just finalized on August 10, it was clear this was a vendetta aimed at me and me alone. I was awarded a small amount of child support and reimbursement for half the cost of the children’s health insurance and medical costs in addition I was to be the custodial parent, (as I have always been the predominate parent), he had limited visits.
Somehow he was able to manipulate the entire system set in place for our protection and ultimately managed to file a completely false restraining order, taking my daughter from my care. She suffers from sever emotional issues, he is aware of her diagnosis’s and I know he used her condition to get his way.
As I sob I am struck with the irony of how our system is to bring the unjust into light and hold them accountable for their actions. This is not the case in this situation, as my daughter is the one was used, all to hurt me to get his way. He wants to not have to pay anything as was stated in his response during our divorce. Now the burden of proof is on me to prove my innocents over the allegations. On top of it, they way he works I’m pretty sure my daughter no longer loves me or trust me, as he has turned her against me I’m sure.
I know I am innocent, however the issue is I am not able to find a lawyer. Why? Somehow even with his livable income he qualified for free representation. I do not make a livable income, and the only place that would help me can’t because they are helping him. There are 9 days until court and I, who am completely innocent cannot seem to get any help.
I’m hardly able to believe how someone who manipulates and lies somehow has the upper hand over control on what will happen. I am in a state of despair over his deceptive skills and
I’m extremely worried over this, it was 12 days from the divorce when he fabricated and made his moves to start to move forward with his ultimate plan.
How does one stop a person like this? Really?